Part of a casual essay, called "Scotland Versus Sweden", in which I discuss the culture differences I've seen so far.
Formality
When the lady behind
the cashier in M&S says ”Hello darling” and politely asks ”How are you
today?”, later finishing the conversation with ”have a nice weekend, dear”, is
something that I probably never will get used to. While walking in the street
you will hear “sorry” at least a dozen times before you arrive at your
destination, and you will say “sorry” the same amount of times. Even though you
do not even touch the other people, they keep excusing themselves and you have
to do the same to not appear rude.
In Sweden, we do not
really do formalities. Everyone is addressed by their first name – that
including doctors, professors, teachers, elders and everyone in between. Luckily, I have not yet been put in a
situation where I was expected to address someone by their title and family name,
at least I hope I have not. It just is not in my world and does not come to me
naturally. Mrs, Ms, Miss and Mr seem like taken from another time, and not the 21th
century.
To be continued! :D
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